When it comes to giving a hand job, let’s ditch the awkward fumbling (I've been there), boredom, and embrace some playful techniques that turn up the heat. It’s not just about mechanics—it’s about fun, connection, and knowing a few tricks to make things way more enjoyable for both of you. Ready to go from “meh” to wow? Let’s get to it!
Set the scene and awaken the penis
The penis, just like the clitoris, appreciates foreplay. The foreplay can begin way before your physical action with a little cute picture of you, a cheeky text, or a whisper before you each leave for work. This type of teasing can make the eventual arousal so much more intense and enjoyable. Once you're together again, start with gentle, teasing touches around the thighs, hips, and abdomen. Use your fingertips or a feather-like motion to heighten sensitivity and anticipation. You can even awaken the senses through Turn Me On Massage Oil Candle that has bergamot and vetiver essential oils that helps to wake up the body.
Warm up your hands and use some lube
Cold and dry hands? Big no-no. The key to a mind-blowing experience is having warm hands with the right lubrication for that smooth, gliding sensation. Try Motion Lotion, which not only enhances touch but also has a long-lasting glide. Trust us, lube takes things from good to unforgettable.
Are they circumcised or not circumcised?
When giving a handjob, understanding whether the penis is circumcised or not can make a big difference in comfort and sensation. For a circumcised penis, there’s less friction of the foreskin and less natural lubrication, so adding a high-quality lubricant like Motion Lotion is essential for a smooth and pleasurable experience. Focus on varying pressure, strokes, and rhythms on the tip of the penis for more stimulations and enjoyable hand jobs.
For an uncircumcised penis, the foreskin adds friction and a natural glide, but be gentle and mindful—pulling back the foreskin too much can create discomfort if done too roughly. Use the foreskin itself to create smooth movements, or pair it with lube for enhanced sensations. Always pay attention to your partner’s reactions and communicate openly to ensure maximum pleasure.
Switch it up
Don’t be shy—experiment with different grips, speeds, and techniques. Try twisting motions, teasing strokes, or alternating pressure. Think of it like DJ-ing: you’re creating a rhythm, and every person has their own favorite tempo. Bonus points if you lock eyes to see what’s working!
Tips on different motions:
✅ Double-hand twists
✅ Focus on the frenulum (It looks like the top of the mushroom 🍄🟫)
✅ Elevator shaft going up and down the penis
✅ Toying with just the tip of the penis
✅ Play with the balls by tickling, cupping to sucking while stroking the penis
✅ Hold the base of the penis tightly while focusing on stroking the frenulum
Include some extras
Why let your hands do all the work? Incorporate your mouth, your body on them, or toys for a little extra fun. Our Le Coq cock ring from Dream Team may have a starring role for penis play. Mix it in for some tension and vibrations that will blow their mind (and yours).
Communication is sexy
The secret sauce? Ask them what feels good! Open conversations during or after can guide your moves and create deeper intimacy. Saying something like, “Tell me what you love about this,” not only boosts confidence but also guarantees they’ll be talking about this night for weeks.
Hand job is hard work, but it can be worth the effort
A hand job doesn’t have to be an afterthought—it can be an experience. When done right, it’s playful, intimate, and incredibly fun. With these tips (and a little help from The Oh Collective’s pleasure-enhancing products), you’ll turn your hand game into an art form.
So, ready to up your skills? Let’s turn those hands into magic wands. 🪄✨