In a long-term relationship or just getting started, intimacy can go through phases. Sometimes it’s red-hot. Sometimes... not so much. And guess what? That’s normal. The secret isn’t in doing more — it’s in playing more intentionally.
If you're ready to bring curiosity, closeness, and a little buzz back into your bedroom (or living room, or elevator — no judgment), couple’s vibrators might just be your new best friend.
Why Intimacy Thrives on Play
We often forget that sexual connection is built — not born. Introducing something new is one of the fastest ways to rebuild or strengthen intimacy. Not because your sex life is broken, but because novelty boosts dopamine, re-sparks curiosity, and encourages touch, talk, and teamwork.
The Science Behind Shared Pleasure
Studies show that couples who explore pleasure together report:
- 20% higher sexual satisfaction
- Improved emotional intimacy
- More open communication in and out of bed
And yes, that includes toys.
Exploring Together = Stronger Connection
Using a vibrator as a couple isn’t about replacing anyone. It’s about amplifying the experience — adding vibration, surprise, and sensation where fingers or tongues can’t reach. It’s a shared journey, not a solo act.
What to Look for in a Couple’s Vibrator
Not all toys are built the same. And the best one for you depends on how you like to play.
Hands-Free vs Remote Control
Want something you can wear during sex? Go hands-free. Prefer to tease your partner across the dinner table? Remote-controlled toys are your vibe. Want something to enhance your intercourse experience? Try vibrators or suction. Continue to read the article for more suggestions below.
Body-Safe Materials and App Integration
Always go for medical-grade silicone (non-toxic, hypoallergenic) and toys that are rechargeable and waterproof. Bonus points if you can control it with an app for distance play.
1. Dream Team – A Perfect Pairing for All Types of Play
The Dream Team by The Oh Collective is exactly that — 4 toys and a remote control. You get a panty vibrator, a clitoral pen vibrator, a cockring, and a butt plug. You also get one remote control where you can take the toys out for a wild spin.
Why It’s a Go-To for Couples
- 4 vibrators, 1 remote control
- One can tease, the other can enjoy the anticipation
- The set comes with a spinner wheel to help you pick the toys to play for the day!
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2. Chi Suction Vibrator – Clitoral Focus, Partner Friendly
The Chi Suction Vibrator is an air suction vibrator that comes with a deck of couple's play cards. It targets the clitoris using suction that mimics oral sex. If you like a bit of fingering and penetration by your partner and mixing in clitoral stimulation? This is your perfect pick.
Why It's a Go-To for Couples
- 24 "Turn Me On" and "Let's Get Adventurous" cards
- Chi suction vibrator comes with 3 different suction heads to fit all sizes of clitoris
- The suction sensation can be used on balls and prostate for stimulation
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3. Heart-throb – A Remote Control Outdoor Adventure
Want to spice things up at brunch? Or from across the kitchen? The Heart-throb is a remote control vibrator made for distance play — even if the distance is just a few inches.
Naughty Play Anytime, Anywhere
Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or just love public play, this toy is about connection + control + anticipation. One of you wears it, the other gets the remote. Chaos (and pleasure) ensues.
Why it's a go-to for couples
- It comes with a cute heart-shaped magnet that clips the vibrator right on the panties
- Paired with a remote-control for outdoor play
- Very silent, so it's your secret only!
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4. Lovense Lush 2 – App-Controlled, Curve-Hugging Pleasure
The Lovense Lush 2 is a legend in the world of long-distance wearable vibrators wherever you and your partner are in the world. Shaped to hug your curves and sync with an app, it’s perfectly designed for couples in long-term relationships, or simply like some naughty outdoor play!
Why It's A Go-To For Couples
- Wear it to dinner, during video calls, or while doing the laundry. Your partner can control everything via app — from another room or another country.
- Customize vibration patterns or sync with music.
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5. Satisfyer Double Joy – Affordable, Intimate Innovation During Penetrative Sex
Want something beginner-friendly but still packed with power? The Satisfyer Double Joy is a great pick. It’s a wearable, U-shaped vibrator you can use during sex — yes, while they’re inside you. Ps. We highly suggest always using lots of lube to avoid friction during penetration with the toy!
Why It's A Go-To For Couples
- It vibrates on the clit and inside the vagina simultaneously. All while keeping your hands free. You can combine it with penetrative sex - make sure you use lots and lots of lube!
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Bonus Round: Add a Little Chocolate to the Mix
Want to really level up the night? Pair your toy session with libido-boosting and intimacy building Date Night Chocolate. It’s packed with maca (for energy), ginseng (for vitality), and damiana (for intimacy).
It’s not just a treat — it’s foreplay in a bite.
Melt together, stimulate each other, and see what kind of magic happens when you pair sensual ingredients with sensation-rich toys.
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Play Isn’t Just for Fun—It’s for Connection
Sex is supposed to be fun. But more than that, it’s supposed to feel safe, exciting, and shared. Couple’s vibrators are not about perfection — they’re about pleasure, presence, and partnership.