"说实话我不太喜欢两性平等这个话题，过度强调平等对我来说就是在暗示不平等，而且很多人通常把平等（equality） 和相同（sameness） 等同（因为男女从基因上本来就是不同的，做不同的事有不同爱好没什么错的)，把性别极端化。我觉得做好人更重要，做个健康自尊有理想的人，就足够快乐了。"
"To be honest, I don’t really like the topic of gender equality. To me there is too much emphasis on equality which implies inequality, and many people usually compare equality and sameness (because men and women are naturally genetically different and have different hobbies when doing different things. There is nothing wrong with it) to radicalise gender. I think it is more important to be a good person. To have healthy self-esteem and ideal person is enough to be happy."
王淼 Miao Wang
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白天是LEGO乐高创意总监
晚上全心做鲨鱼使者
北京出生
美国长大
现居上海
LEGO Creative Director By Day
Shark Protector By Night
Born in Beijing
Raised in US
Now Based in Shanghai
Q&A
The Oh Collective: 可以给我们一个迷你自我介绍吗?
Miao：我叫做王淼英文名为Miao，北京出生，美国长大，白天全职是乐高创意总监，晚上全心做鲨鱼使者 （In Sharks We Trust创始人） 从三好学生到常青藤学霸到找份好工作，一直走的是很保守的“成功”路线，直到五年前随着上一份工作（耐克）到上海，受到各种文化冲击差点搬走，终于在挚爱的潜水/海洋中找到了使命与光，走上拯救世界的创业之路，也因为梦想找到了爱情，在之后找到了我的OH！
The Oh Collective: Can you quickly introduce yourself?
Miao：Miao, born in Beijing, grew up in the United States, is a full-time Lego creative director during the day and a shark messenger (founder of In Sharks We Trust) at night. From a Miyoshi student to an Ivy League student to finding a good job, she has been conservative. While following the "success" route, my previous job (Nike) brought me to Shanghai 5 years ago but I almost moved away due to various cultural shocks. Now I finally found my passion and mission for diving and the ocean and have embarked on an entrepreneurial venture to save the world. Because of my dream I found love and then I found orgasms!
The Oh Collective: 你的兴趣爱好是什么？
Miao: 鲨鱼，潜水，旅行，瑜伽，食物科技（比如种水培蔬菜）和搞各种创意
The Oh Collective: What are some of your hobbies?
Miao: Sharks, diving, travel, yoga, food technology (such as growing hydroponic vegetables) and creative ideas.
The Oh Collective: 你对女性健康和女性自我愉悦这主题有什么想法吗？
Miao：对我来说从自己去旅行到做自己想做的东西和自慰都算自我愉悦，目标都是享受和快乐嘛。自我认知都很重要，真正了解什么让自己开心才会知道怎么做到愉悦。
The Oh Collective: What are your thoughts on the topic of women's health and women's self-pleasure?
Miao：For me, traveling on my own, doing what I want to do, and masturbating are all self-pleasure and my goals in life are enjoyment and happiness. Self-awareness is very important to me, only by understanding what makes you happy you will know how to be happy.
The Oh Collective: 你可以告诉我们，在成长当中，你是在哪里学习关于女性健康和自我愉悦的呢？
Miao：从来没有学过！我六七岁就开始自.慰但当然当时不知道自己在做什么啦。后来去美国上大学时才接触黄片，它是我所有性常识的来源哈哈哈。后来才慢慢跟着看片加上自身经验才更加了解的。
The Oh Collective:Can you tell us, where did you learn about women’s health and self-pleasure while growing up?
Miao：Never learned! I started masturbating when I was six or seven but I didn’t actually know what I was doing. Later, when I went to college in the United Stated I came in contact with pornography. Porn was the source of all my sexual knowledge hahaha and suddenly all the dots connected.
The Oh Collective: 成长途中，是否有遇到任何关于女性健康的问题呢？有没有让你觉得不舒服的地方，或者是你不知道答案的地方吗？你当时是如何解决的呢？
Miao: 没有特别明确的不舒服的点，可能就是关于高潮吧，因为跟我所有的伴侣我几乎从来不会达到高.潮. 能记得的可能就两次。直到跟现在的男友，也没有刻意解决但因为自己阅历也多了，心态好了，跟男友感情很好很信任很自然，所以高潮好像就自然而然来了！
The Oh Collective: Did you encounter any issues regarding women’s health while growing up? Is there something that makes you uncomfortable, or where you don’t know the answer? How did you solve it?
Miao: There is no specific uncomfortable point, it may be about orgasms, because I almost never reached orgasms with past partners. From what I can remember it only happened twice. Until now with my boyfriend. I did not deliberately solve it but because I have more experience, my mentality is better. I have a good relationship with my boyfriend and trust comes very naturally, so the climax seems to also come more naturally!
The Oh Collective: 现在回过去看，你会想告诉18岁的你自己什么呢？你会希望更早学习到什么吗？
Miao: 学习少一点，旅游多一点哈哈
The Oh Collective: Looking back now, what would you want to tell the 18-year-old yourself? Would you like to learn something earlier?
Miao: Study less and travel more
The Oh Collective: 你对双性之间的性平等差距有什么想法吗？
Miao: 说实话我不太喜欢两性平等这个话题，过度强调平等对我来说就是在暗示不平等，而且很多人通常把平等和相同等同（因为男女从基因上本来就是不同的，做不同的事有不同爱好没什么错的)，把性别极端化。我觉得做好人更重要，做个健康自尊有理想的人，就足够快乐了。
The Oh Collective: Do you have any thoughts on gender equality gap between the sexes?
Miao: To be honest, I don’t really like the topic of gender equality. To me there is too much emphasis on equality which implies inequality, and many people usually compare equality and sameness (because men and women are naturally genetically different and have different hobbies when doing different things. There is nothing wrong with it) to radicalise gender. I think it is more important to be a good person. To have healthy self-esteem and ideal person is enough to be happy.
The Oh Collective:你有什么想法来更加提升你自己的健康和自我愉悦的认知呢？
Miao : 从自爱做起，让自己变得很好很值得爱，就不会时不时质疑自己的自我价值和是否值得愉悦自己
The Oh Collective: Do you have any ideas to improve your own health and self-pleasure perception?
Miao : Starting from self-love, let yourself become good and worthy of love, so you will not ask self worthiness and whether to reserve to please yourself from time to time.
The Oh Collective: 你对其他女孩子们有什么建议吗？从网站，平台，产品，等来提升自己的健康和自我愉悦呢？例如：在自我愉悦前，泡个澡…等。
Miao : 找到好些的黄色片子来看! 哈哈哈。另外就是和两性关系的话题上能更开放，要了解愉悦=自爱，但愉悦≠幸福。所以在提升自我愉悦的同时找到亲密的来源，可能来自恋人，也可能是朋友，只有都有了才有真正的满足感。
The Oh Collective: Do you have any suggestions for other girls? How about websites, platforms, products, etc. to improve your health and self-pleasure? For example: take a bath before self-pleasure…
Miao : Find better porn! Hahaha. The other is to be more open on the topic of relationship with your partners. It is necessary to understand that pleasure = self-love, but pleasure ≠ happiness. So when you work on pleasure, you can find the source of intimacy. It may come from a lover or a friend. Only when you have found that can you have real satisfaction.
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TOC : Thank you for sharing your story with us. Hopefully we'll inspire more girls who are Just Like You.
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