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    Soft Spark Set

    Soft Spark Set

    Cards + chocolate

    A feel-good duo that starts with self-connection and ends with playful chemistry: Self Love Cards plus Date Night Chocolates in one giftable set for solo rituals, thoughtful gifting, or a softer kind of date night.

    Regular price €35,99 EUR
    Regular price Bundle price €35,99 EUR
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      • ✦ Rated 9/10 by real women
      • ✦ Same-day shipping before 12 PM
      • ✦ Free shipping on orders over €100
      • ✦ 100% discreet delivery in unmarked boxes
      • ✦A four-female led brand from Amsterdam
      • ✦ Free erotica from Cheex, Erika Lust and more with every order

      Box content

      1 x Self Love Cards
      53 cards in a tuck box
      42 question cards
      10 challenge cards
      1 x Date Night Chocolates
      1 bar of 4 portions (2 truths and 2 dares)

      Ingredients

      Self Love Cards

      Not applicable.

      Date Night Chocolates

      • Dark chocolate (cocoa mass, cane sugar, cocoa butter)
      • Freeze-dried strawberries
      • Popping candy (sugar, lactose from milk, glucose, carbon dioxide)
      • Yellow maca
      • Cayenne
      • Panax ginseng
      • Damiana extract
      • Arginine

      Dark chocolate contains cocoa solids: 60% minimum. May contain tree nuts, peanuts, wheat, soy, and eggs.

      Details

      A softer kind of bundle for people who want both reflection and spark. Self Love Cards brings thoughtful prompts and gentle challenges for confidence, clarity, and kinder rituals, while Date Night Chocolates adds a playful, aphrodisiac twist for the moments you want to share.

      It works as a thoughtful gift, a solo reset with a little edge, or a date night starter that feels warm, intimate, and easy to reach for. One product turns you inward. The other turns up the chemistry.

      Self Love Cards includes 53 cards in a tuck box. Date Night Chocolates includes 1 bar of 4 portions with 2 truths and 2 dares inside.

      Specifications

      Card size: 7 x 10 cm
      53 cards in a tuck box
      1 chocolate box included

      Material and care

      Self Love Cards are made in Europe on FSC-certified paper and packed in a protective sleeve made from compostable film.

      Store the chocolates in a cool, dry place away from heat and direct sunlight.

      Refer to the individual product packs for full use, storage, and safety information.

      Shipping & Returns

      NL & BE: 1–3 business days
      Europe & UK: 2–5 business days
      Worldwide: 5–12 business days

      Orders placed before 12:00 PM are shipped the same day.

      Returns are accepted within 30 days for unopened products with the safety seal intact.

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      Approved by more than 150.000 customers
      designed and developed by women
      ★ Rated 9/10 by real women
      Approved by more than 150.000 customers
      designed and developed by women
      ★ Rated 9/10 by real women
      Approved by more than 150.000 customers
      designed and developed by women
      ★ Rated 9/10 by real women
      • INSTANT MOOD LIFT

        Endorphins are the best natural high without side effects.

      • SELF-DISCOVERY

        Find out what you really like. Spoiler: you might increase your self-confidence.

      • More Intimacy

        Deepen connection, play, and everything in between.

      • Customer Serena

        “I’ve tested a lot over the years. What stands out here is how well everything comes together. The finish, the design, how it feels in use, it’s solid. It genuinely adds something to my day.”

      • Somatic Therapist Danique

        “I always look at how something feels in real life. Products from The Oh Collective invite for exploration in a way that stays comfortable. They works solo but also great to explore together.”

      • Model Izzy

        “Talking about pleasure used to feel awkward. Then I discovered The Oh Collective. Their products helped me understand my body in a new way: relaxed, confident, and completely in tune with what I want. Every woman deserves that kind of connection.”

      • Quality and safety

        We work with third party quality testing houses and ensure premium materials and facilities. 

      • Expert approved

        We collaborate with sexologists, therapists, nutritionists, and TCM-doctors to ensure your full pleasure experience.

      • member Perks

        As a member you receive access to our partner platforms like Erika Lust, Cheex, Rouze and more.

      Questions we get all the time (and we totally get why 👇)

      Why should I choose The Oh Collective

      We’re four women who got tired of the male-dominated pleasure industry and decided to do things differently. We design what we’d actually use — products we’d gift to our friends, sisters and even mums (yes, really).

      From our vibrators and couples’ sets to our feel-good sex bonbons and Tabs Sex Chocolate, every product is safe, beautiful and designed for real bodies.

      We know the female body — because we live in it.

      Are your products safe and discreet?

      Always. Every product — from our vibrators to our Date Night Chocolate — is made from body-safe ingredients or materials.

      Your order ships in plain, unbranded packaging, so your postman won’t know you’re stocking up on pleasure (unless he’s psychic).

      How can your products spice up our relationship?

      Whether you’re looking for sex chocolates, a box of Date Night Sex Bonbons, or one of our bestselling vibrators, we believe pleasure should be playful, connected and pressure-free.

      Our products help you slow down, tune in, and explore what feels good — solo or together. Think of it as dessert for your body and your relationship.

      How long does delivery take?

      • Netherlands + Belgium: 1-2 business days
      • Europe & UK: 2-3 business days
      • Rest of the world: 2-7 business days

      We ship with DHL, DPD, UPS, and PostNL — fast, discreet, and always reliable (unlike some exes).

      What if I don't like my order?

      We get it — pleasure is personal. If your sex chocolates don’t melt your heart or your vibrator doesn’t hit the spot, email us at support@theohcollective.com.

      We’ll make it right faster than you can say “self-care night.”

      Do you ship worldwide?

      Yes! We ship worldwide from the Netherlands.

      A shipping fee applies, but it’s worth it — we promise your Date Night Sex Bonbons and Tabs Sex Chocolate will travel safely to your doorstep.

      Are your products gift-friendly?

      Absolutely. Every order — from our Date Night Chocolate to a remote control couples vibrator — comes beautifully and discreetly packaged. It’s the kind of gift that gets unwrapped with a smile (and maybe a wink).

      What if I don’t know which product to choose?

      No stress — we’ve got you. Message us on Instagram or email  and we’ll help you find your match. Whether you’re curious about vibrators, sex chocolates, or couples’ toys, we’ll guide you discreetly.

      Are your products vegan or sustainable?

      Many of our sex chocolates use plant-based or natural ingredients, and our vibrators are crafted from body-safe silicone. We’re mindful of packaging too — recyclable where possible and always built to last.

      • discreet and fast delivery

      • approved by experts

      • body-safe and gentle materials

      Overall rating: 4.898876 / 5 from 89 reviews.

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      Reviews

      heerlijke chocolades

      "werkten heel goed voor mij, heb er verder niks over te melden. de kaarten zijn een leuk idee! ook mooi dat het een Amsterdams bedrijf is"

      — Saskia (5/5)

      fantastisch

      "ik voelde het HEEL erg goed, mijn partner helaas een stuk minder dan ik. ik moet zeggen dat ik ook erg gevoelig ben voor andere "substances" zoals alcohol etc. ik heb niet veel nodig. een mooie ervaring en ik ga het zeker bijbestellen, misschien niet voor mijn partner. . daar moeten we maar iets anders op verzinnen :) echt een 10 dit product!"

      — Luna (5/5)

      My favorite flavor

      "I've tried all three flavors and this one is my favorite. The caramel is so smooth and lovely. Also having more truth or dare cards was helpful to start conversations. . ."

      — Josie (5/5)

      So delicious, fun and naughty

      "Definitely felt something and came back to buy a second as the misses really loved it. Tastes good, the truth or dares were fun and we did check out the QR activities that was interesting to explore!"

      — Deon (5/5)

      Superleuk idee

      "Ik heb deze voor Valentijnsdag gekregen en het was een denderend succes. Sowieso ga ik de andere smaken ook nog uitproberen. Ik voelde me erg relaxed en de kaarten waren cheeky."

      — Emma (5/5)

      Great chocolate

      "One of the greatest chocolates I have ever purchased. I enjoyed how smooth it felt in my mouth (that little spice made it even better - I have never tasted spicy chocolate before, but the mix of sweet chocolate and spice is so unique and good!!!). You can already tell from the pictures that the packaging is premium and the chocolate box includes playing cards, which is a really nice addition. Will be repurchasing!"

      — Umi (5/5)

      Great chocolates! Best in town imo

      "Great chocolates, they really made the night fantastic for me & my girl, however, I still think that the previous Bon Bon’s were way better, definitely stronger, this does not go to say that I don’t like the current ones, it only goes to say that I miss the other ones which were so special."

      — Vincent P. (5/5)

      best gift

      "The pleasure pair is worth every penny! I bought it as a gift for my friend since it was her birthday and she loved it. The packaging for both chocolates and bonbons is sooo nice, you just put a little bow on top and the gift is ready haha. The inside of the box is also very good looking - with playing cards, little space for them, and aesthetic looking chocolates! The best gift you will find!"

      — Angie (5/5)

      Fun experience

      "Tried these bonbons on a girls' night and it was so much fun! At first we were a little afraid that we might start feeling super horny but after taking them we felt really nice. While waiting for the effects, we played some games and talked, and after around 30-40 minutes we started feeling relaxed and happier in a good way. We had some long discussions, lots of laughter, and a really fun evening! Highly recommend trying it with your friends! :)"

      — carie (5/5)

      Recommend highly

      "Recommend this set to anyone who wants to see how easy it is to orgasm with a little additional help :) This toy is one of my favorites - its very easy to use, quite quiet, charges fast, waterproof - just everything you could need in a toy. The chocolates were a nice addition - they made me relax and feel more connected with my body before the solo session with my new satisfyer :)))"

      — Emilia (5/5)

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