Natural stress-relief patches
Stress Relief
A pause for days when everything arrives at once.
Ross J. Barr Calm Patches are small herbal patches designed to support moments of stress and tension. Wear them on your temples or behind your ears, with a herbal scent that becomes part of taking a pause during your day.
10 patches per pack · 3 cm diameter · Up to 12 hours of wear
Ross created Calm for everyday stress, tension and the feeling of a crowded mind. The blend includes safflower, peach kernels and white peony root extract. The brand describes its approach through scent and placement on acupuncture points. It fits into a workday, a journey or a quiet moment at home.
Ross J. Barr is a registered acupuncturist (BSc Hons, MBAcC) whose practice covers women’s health, fertility, stress and grief. His introduction to acupuncture was personal: after his father died suddenly, he sought treatment to help him cope with the loss. The experience led him to retrain as a practitioner.
He specialises in Five Element Acupuncture. In 2020, he launched his patch range to bring part of his approach into everyday routines beyond the treatment room. Herbal blends, scent and placement inspired by acupuncture are central to the range.
Peel a patch from its backing and apply to clean, dry temples or behind the ears. Gently massage for one or two minutes to help release the herbs. The brand describes up to 12 hours of use; follow the instructions on your pack.
Yes. Calm Patches are designed for daytime use, including at your desk. They have a noticeable herbal aroma, so consider your own scent preferences.
Calm is intended for stress and tension. Focus is intended for concentration during work, reading or study.
The brand describes transdermal action as negligible. Its explanation centres on herbal oils, scent and placement inspired by acupuncture.
Wait 48 hours after retinol or a skin peel on the application area.
The brand positions Calm for everyday tension and headaches. Recurrent or severe headaches need medical advice. Individual experiences vary.
For external use only. Unsuitable during pregnancy or breastfeeding. The brand lists use for adults and children above 12; consult a doctor for younger children. Avoid eyes, nose and damaged skin. Ask a clinician before use if you have sensitive skin or ingredient allergies. Remove if irritation occurs.
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Worldwide: 5–12 business days
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Returns are accepted within 30 days for unopened products with the safety seal intact.
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