Me, then we
A feel-good duo that starts with self-connection and ends with playful chemistry: Self Love Cards plus Date Night Chocolates in one giftable set for solo rituals, thoughtful gifting, or a softer kind of date night.
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We process and ship orders within 24 hours, and ship orders out on the same day when placed before 12pm.
Returns: Returns are accepted only for unopened packages with the safety seal intact and within 30 days after delivery. You will receive a full refund.
“I’ve tested a lot over the years. What stands out here is how well everything comes together. The finish, the design, how it feels in use, it’s solid. It genuinely adds something to my day.”
“I always look at how something feels in real life. This invites exploration in a way that stays comfortable. Accessible, with depth. Works solo, works together.”
“Talking about pleasure used to feel awkward. Then I discovered The Oh Collective. Their products helped me understand my body in a new way: relaxed, confident, and completely in tune with what I want. Every woman deserves that kind of connection.”
Are you sure your toys are safe? We do. We work with third party quality testing houses and ensure premium materials and facilities.
We collaborate with sexologists, therapists, and TCM-doctors to ensure your full pleasure experience.
With every purchase you receive access to free ethical erotica from Erika Lust, Cheex, Rouze and more.
Toys that calm your mind and make your body hum. Win-win.
Turns “one last scroll” into “one deep sleep.” You’ll thank us in the morning.
Endorphins are the best natural high — no side effects, just smiles.
Find out what you really like. Spoiler: you might increase your self-confidence.
From slow build-ups to fireworks — satisfaction, guaranteed (by experience).
Deepen connection, play, and everything in between.
Whether you’re looking for sex chocolates, a box of Date Night Sex Bonbons, or one of our bestselling vibrators, we believe pleasure should be playful, connected and pressure-free.
Our products help you slow down, tune in, and explore what feels good — solo or together. Think of it as dessert for your body and your relationship.
We’re four women who got tired of the male-dominated pleasure industry and decided to do things differently. We design what we’d actually use — products we’d gift to our friends, sisters and even mums (yes, really).
From our vibrators and couples’ sets to our feel-good sex bonbons and Tabs Sex Chocolate, every product is safe, beautiful and designed for real bodies.
We know the female body — because we live in it.
Always. Every product — from our vibrators to our Date Night Chocolate — is made from body-safe ingredients or materials.
Your order ships in plain, unbranded packaging, so your postman won’t know you’re stocking up on pleasure (unless he’s psychic).
We ship with DHL, DPD, UPS, and PostNL — fast, discreet, and always reliable (unlike some exes).
We get it — pleasure is personal. If your sex chocolates don’t melt your heart or your vibrator doesn’t hit the spot, email us at support@theohcollective.com.
We’ll make it right faster than you can say “self-care night.”
Yes! We ship worldwide from the Netherlands.
A shipping fee applies, but it’s worth it — we promise your Date Night Sex Bonbons and Tabs Sex Chocolate will travel safely to your doorstep.
Absolutely. Every order — from our Date Night Chocolate to a remote control couples vibrator — comes beautifully and discreetly packaged. It’s the kind of gift that gets unwrapped with a smile (and maybe a wink).
If you’re new to the world of pleasure, start with our classic Kit - Bendy G-spot vibrator. It’s intuitive, body-safe, and one of the most loved vibrators in the world.
No stress — we’ve got you. Message us on Instagram or email and we’ll help you find your match. Whether you’re curious about vibrators, sex chocolates, or couples’ toys, we’ll guide you discreetly.
Many of our sex chocolates use plant-based or natural ingredients, and our vibrators are crafted from body-safe silicone. We’re mindful of packaging too — recyclable where possible and always built to last.
