If you've ever fantasized about handing over control (literally) or getting turned on by your partner somewhere public, you're not alone. A big reason people love the idea of remote control vibrators is that they turn anticipation into arousal—never knowing when the buzz hits is half the thrill. Giving up control adds a layer of trust, excitement, and emotional intimacy. It’s a power play. Remote control vibrators are more popular than ever – and we tested them all so you don’t have to.
This 2025 guide on the Best Remote Control Vibrators feature our honest take on the top remote control vibrators, including toys for solo play, couples, and even backdoor exploration. Whether you're a beginner or seasoned power lover, these are the toys we actually use and recommend.
What to Know Before You Buy
App vs Remote Control
They're both fun and playful options for naughty play. I find the remote-control options to be the easiest, but if you're in a long-distance relationship, always go for the app-controlled ones!
- App-controlled: Great for long-distance! Imagine wearing the toy to bed... and your partner surprises you with a buzz.
- Remote-controlled: Simpler, usually has fewer features but is more reliable IRL.
Power & Vibe Quality
- Do you prefer rumbling sensation (deeper type of vibration) or buzzing type of vibration?
- Make sure you also pay attention to the quality of the vibrators. All the vibrators we make and sell at The Oh Collective consist of food-grade silicone to medical-grade silicone that are body-safe.
Noise Levels
- If public use is your goal, aim for under 50 dB (like a quiet fridge).
Fit & Comfort
- Are you getting remote-control toys for indoor or outdoor play? Some are made for indoor play but some are for outdoor play. More information is in the rest of the article.
- Panty-style toys need a secure fit.
- Insertables should follow your body's shape and preferences.
Our Tried & True Picks
💖 The Oh Collective Dream Team
Best For: The most versatile with 4 different toys and 1 remote control. It includes a panty vibrator (indoor/outdoor play), a pen vibrator (indoor play), a cockring (indoor/outdoor play), and a butt plug (indoor/outdoor play).
This combo set includes both wearable and hand-held vibrators. It also includes a spinner wheel inside the pack that chooses which toy you and your partner can play with. You're fully giving up control!
- 10 powerful settings
- 4 toys and 1 remote control
- USB rechargeable and water-resistant
- Comes with a couple's spinner game inside
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💖 Heart-Throb Panty Vibrator With Remote Control
Best For: Panty slip vibrator in public. Clitoral Stimulation.
This wearable panty vibrator sits comfortably in your panties and gives strong clitoris-focused vibrations. Designed with a beautiful heart shape and ultra-quiet motor, it’s your new bestie for secret teasing. It's perfect for a movie, a dinner date, or just naughtily walking around town with a secret only the two of you know.
- 10 vibration modes
- Remote controlled
- Magnetic clip for secure fit
- USB rechargeable and waterproof
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💋 Lovense Lush 2
Best For: Long-distance relationships and people who enjoy indoor and outdoor play. The toy is designed for vaginal stimulation. So it's more about the anticipation vs. the goal of immediate clitoral orgasms.
Known as the OG of app-controlled toys, the Lovense Lush 2 slips inside and gives powerful G-spot stimulation. Control it via app from anywhere in the world.
- Super quiet and secure inside underwear
- Strongest internal vibrations we've tested
- Customizable vibration patterns on the app
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🌸 Svakom Chika
Best For: Rumbling dual-stimulation vibes on both the clitoris and vagina! It comes with an app-enabled remote control so your partner can partake in your pleasure while you have partial hand-held control. This is great for you to adjust to your pleasure needs (and angles) while your partner controls the speed.
This remote control rabbit vibrator cutie fits perfectly in your hand ergonomically and delivers surprisingly deep vibrations. Perfect for solo play or to hand over to a partner. Ps. It heats up to mimic a real-life sensation.
- Silicone soft-touch finish
- Rumbling dual-stimulation for blended orgasms
- 5 speeds, 5 patterns
- Heats up!
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🍯 The Oh Collective Boo Remote-Control Butt Plug
Best For: Butt play with remote teasing made for indoor and outdoor play! 20M distance remote-control play. Perfect for solo, indoor, or outdoor play. I personally love it for indoor couple's play because it helps to relieve that feeling of twisting your body around to adjust the butt plug!
Explore backdoor play with a toy designed for beginners and seasoned explorers alike. With 10 settings and a wearable design, Boo makes it safe, fun, and sexy. It's designed with a tapered and long shape so you can experience deeper buzzing without spreading your cheeks too wide.
- Ergonomic shape for comfort
- Remote-controlled
- Body-safe silicone and super silent
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✨ Satisfyer Double Joy
Best For: Hands-free stimulation during penetrative partner sex. Ps. It feels best when you use LOTS of water-based lube with this one.
Designed to be worn during penetrative sex, this U-shaped toy stimulates the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously for both partners to enjoy. As mentioned above, use lots of water-based lube to prevent chafing on the penis but when it glides, it feels phenomenal! I also suggest not thrusting in and out too hard while wearing double joy - focus on getting her to come while he's inside along with this toy.
- App-compatible for fun control games
- Affordable intro couples toy
- Waterproof & body-safe silicone
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🍫 Our Favourite Cherry-On-Top Experience with Date Night Chocolate
Remote control vibrators are all about anticipation, teasing, and connection — and nothing sets the mood quite like our Date Night Chocolate. Made with mood-boosting ingredients and natural aphrodisiacs, it's designed to activate your senses before play even begins. Whether you're handing the remote to your partner across the table or diving into solo time, this rich, melt-in-your-mouth chocolate enhances every touch, buzz, and pulse.
Pair it with any of our suggested toy above, it’s foreplay you can eat — and foreplay that keeps on giving.
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We don’t recommend any toy we haven’t tested and loved. Whether you’re vibing solo, exploring anal play, or handing over control in public or during sex, these 6 vibrators offer something for every vibe.
Curious which one suits you best? DM us on Instagram @theohcollective, email us at hi@theohcollective.com or swing by our The Oh Collective Playground at Oude Hoogstraat 12 for a chat.